5 Lessons from a Life Coach

5 Lessons from a Life Coach

5 Lessons from a Life Coach By Becky Mollenkamp, PCC As a life coach, clients (and strangers) sometimes ask me to solve their problems. They want me to tell them the secrets to finding the perfect job, choosing the right partner, being happy. But guess what? I don’t...
How to Turn Around a Bad Day

How to Turn Around a Bad Day

When you’re having a bad moment or day (or even a long series of bad days), it can feel like things will never get better. You may intellectually understand that change will eventually come, but that doesn’t lessen the load in the moment. At those difficult times,...
There is Nothing Wrong with You!

There is Nothing Wrong with You!

You are not broken. You are not a toy with missing parts, a fixer-upper house, or a clogged toilet. As a life coach, people often tell me that they feel like something is wrong with them, that they need to mend their mindset, that they are broken and need to be...
Weaponized Gratitude

Weaponized Gratitude

Watch Out for Weaponized Gratitude By Becky Mollenkamp, PCC My first “real” job after college was at the Carmel Pine Cone (cute name, right?), a very small newspaper in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California. I was hired as one of three reporters at a salary of $13,000. In...
Don’t trust your own thoughts (until you read this)

Don’t trust your own thoughts (until you read this)

How to distinguish between your true thoughts and limiting beliefs Thoughts aren’t facts, but so many of us believe everything we think. Learning to decipher between our true beliefs and distorted thought patterns is key to changing our mindsets for the better. Here’s...
Free Mindfulness Exercises for Everyday

Free Mindfulness Exercises for Everyday

Free Mindfulness Exercises for Everyday Free Mindfulness Exercises for Everyday By Becky Mollenkamp, PCC A client recently asked me for some advice on how to be more mindful. She already does yoga, but wanted ideas for how to be more present throughout her days, no...