they say you're too

smart.

they say you're too

emotional.

they say you're too

intense.

they say you're too

blunt.

they say you're too

strong.

they say you're too

assertive.

they say you're too

ambitious.

they say you're too

loud.

they say you're too

sensitive.

they say you're too

stubborn.

they say you're too

outspoken.

they say you're too

young.

they say you're too

old.

they say you're too

quiet.

they say you're too

critical.

they say you're too

smart.

they say you're too

emotional.

they say you're too

intense.

they say you're too

blunt.

they say you're too

strong.

they say you're too

assertive.

they say you're too

ambitious.

they say you're too

loud.

they say you're too

sensitive.

they say you're too

stubborn.

they say you're too

outspoken.

they say you're too

young.

they say you're too

old.

they say you're too

quiet.

they say you're too

critical.

I SAY FUCK THAT. IT’S TIME TO BE…

You aren’t too much. You don’t need to be less. And you definitely aren’t less than.

You deserve to be unapologetically more…

✔️ Joyous

✔️ Honest

✔️ Outspoken

✔️ Respected

✔️ Confident

✔️ Gutsy

✔️ Successful

✔️ Content

✔️ Free

✔️ You

✔️ Joyous

✔️ Honest

✔️ Outspoken

✔️ Respected

✔️ Confident

✔️ Gutsy

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✔️ Free

✔️ You

I’m a feminist life coach for women and femmes ready to be unapologetically more (even if they don’t yet know who they are or what they want).

🚨 Black lives matter. Trans women are women. Abortion is healthcare.
If you disagree with those statements, we aren't a good fit. 🚨

Hi, I’m Becky.

I love working with people just like you.

You’ve achieved one goal after another… and you’re fucking exhausted. But if you get off this ride, then what?

Who are you if you’re not the “good girl” who does what she’s “supposed” to do and makes everyone else feel good?

You are so ready to be unapologetically yourself—but how the hell do you figure out who you really are and what you really want?

My coaching will help you:

  • Uncover and unlearn the conditioning that makes you feel less than, stuck, overwhelmed.
  • Cultivate unrelenting self-compassion so you can confidently take steps in a new direction.
  • Redefine your definition of success to release the shoulds and discover your true desires.
  • Develop tools for staying the course even when things get difficult (and they will).

I love working with people just like you.

You’ve achieved one goal after another… and you’re fucking exhausted. But if you get off this ride, then what?

Who are you if you’re not the “good girl” who does what she’s “supposed” to do and makes everyone else feel good?

You are so ready to be unapologetically yourself—but how the hell do you figure out who you really are and what you really want?

My coaching will help you:

  • Uncover and unlearn the conditioning that makes you feel less than, stuck, overwhelmed.
  • Cultivate unrelenting self-compassion so you can confidently take steps in a new direction.
  • Redefine your definition of success to release the shoulds and discover your true desires.
  • Develop tools for staying the course even when things get difficult (and they will).

Ready to start being unapologetically more?

1-on-1 Coaching

I’ll help you bust through harmful conditioning, hold space as you redefine success on your terms, and give you tools to help you advocate for your true desires.

Group Coaching

Discover the power of working in community to break down conditioned beliefs, to discover your true vision of success, and to hold space for each other’s growth.

Journaling Prompts

Get instant access to 500+ journaling prompts (without toxic positivity or woo-woo bullshit) to set fire to your introspection and personal development.

There are two ways to work with me…

Prefer one-on-one coaching?

Interested in group coaching?

Client Love

“Becky is the person holding up the mirror to help you see the real you. She asks the right questions in the right ways to help you see the badass that you are and to allow yourself to embrace that you. She helps you to ‘unstuck’ yourself by seeing what is causing your fear, embracing it, and moving beyond it. Becky allows you to do big work through easy tools. I would describe Becky as the best friend you dream about having to talk to about your inner fears and desires but don’t think is real.  Except that she is!” Martha

Zakia Haughton on mindset coaching with Becky Mollenkamp“Becky helped me see past my own challenges when I was having a hard time doing it myself. Now I feel confident navigating my way through life, while bringing the parts of me that are afraid along for the ride. I’m much more relaxed, I’m allowing things to happen vs. forcing them, and I feel more ‘me’ than I have in over a year.” Zakia

“Becky is a compassionate guide for the ‘inner work.’ She offers an intuition-focused approach vs. ‘lifestyle hacks.’ Our work helped me gain so much courage, confidence, and a new perspective on how to be gentler with myself. I know how to create a sense of safety for myself when I need it. I’m way kinder to myself and I celebrate my wins! I have a new perspective on success and achievement—I set small goals that add up to big results.” Renee

“What I began to realize is that it’s more about how I feel on the inside—it’s not about the results. I’m more confident. I’m better able to talk myself off ledges, whereas before I was jumping off those ledges screaming and walking back up to the top…feeling like a hamster in a wheel. I’m more abundant and make more money as a result of Becky’s coaching. I can honestly say that I feel good about myself, and I’m able to show up and serve from my unique gifts and talents.” Tirra

“This ONE coaching session was probably the most impactful and powerful I have ever had. I love that there was compassion, love, and gentleness that permeated throughout every word you spoke. I was seen, heard, and appreciated as I am. You made me feel comfortable just being, as I tapped into those thoughts and feelings that get pushed down and ignored.” Jackie

“I like Becky’s emphasis on working with smart women. After working with her, I understand that I already have the smarts, knowledge, and strategy I need to succeed, but what’s missing is the mindset piece to help me actually use those smarts and strategy to reach my goals. I’ve noticed a change in the way I work and the amount that I’m able to get done in a day/week now that I’m starting to get out of my own way.” Elli

I felt like the only way I had succeeded in life was by beating myself up, burying my emotions, and going about my life in the way that I thought I should. After working with Becky, I literally feel lighter. I am not a burden on myself or others. I deserve to feel, and I deserve to express those feelings to myself and others. I don’t beat myself up for not meeting some arbitrary or impossible expectation, and I am learning more about myself every day.” Ashley

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